Conflicted.

"Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude."

Soooo true. I hate conflict but I guess it's a reoccurring thing in everybody's life. It's all about the attitude though. Hurt feelings, mixed emotions, unsaid words, unsaid actions,, they can all lead to damaging or deepening results but it's how you take it and apply it. 

The greatest conflicts are not between two people but between one person and himself.